What if before every choice you make, you check into your body's response? Use muscle testing or dowsing ... meditation ... or simply ask without judgment or attachment to the answer. You know more than you think you do. If you feel lighter: go for it! If you feel denser ... you might want to rethink it because your body has a warning message for you.
Ask these questions:
Who do I want to be?
How can I release the fun inside me?
What else is possible?
How can I make this even better?
How do I want to feel?
Where do I want to be?
What would I create if I had unlimited energy and resources?
T.S. Eliot: Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.
You have this creative power ... to be and do all you ever dreamed and desired. Go for it ... life's too short ... live it to the fullest!